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Tuesday, 3 March 2015

Its not going to be easy.

         We see some really good at something,we want to be like them, we want to get where they are. That's not the issue. Anybody can be your so called role model. Someone you look up to and someone who you want to exactly be like. The issue is we fail to understand want we must go through in order to be like them. We are blinded by our urge to reach at the top that we fail to see the stones that lie on our way. Then we fall. We give up, thinking our luck isn't with us, our destiny isn't to become someone like that. They must have being more lucky just, we think. That's not the way it is. They did it before, they wouldn't have had stones on their way agreed, because they would have had rocks. Rocks, which  if would have come your way you would stumbled so hard you would have been injured for life. Don't assume they had their way easy while going up there, don't try to write their past you have no idea about, rather focus on your present and your future and try and get there besides them or ahead of them.
          People might see you fall and even laugh at you, they are the stones that hit really hard, but they will never come stand besides you at the top, because all their life they are just going to be laughing. The ones you see who get at the top before you, the ones you admire, are the one who laughed along with those who laughed at that failure, not because they had failed but because they knew they are going to keep doing just that. Laughing stones are just fine. The jealous stones are the ones we will cause your failure without you knowing it, they will make you fall so hard that you will not dare to get up. But again look at the person at the top, you might be able to see the smile, but beyond that see the scars that nearly broke them down, they might even have more of them, bigger than yours too, the ones that might hurt for a lifetime.
        So stop assuming. Assuming that it was a straight road for them and it should be that way for you too. Stop complaining about a few scratches you get. Stop wining and do what needs to be done for you to get there. Don't let evil fools distract you, because if you let them and they get to know your weakness, you become vulnerable and that would be it. Your so called stones wont only become rocks they will have have water gushing over them hitting you right in the face.So look at that smiling face at the top and nothing else, let that smile give you the strength, let those scars fill up your wounds and above all find that inner strength, that inner will, that will get you up there. Have a strong exterior but be even stronger from within, and that can only happen if you have it in mind that its not going to be easy, its not going to be like eating your favorite ice-cream.